Tuesday, November 26, 2019

OCTOBER 2019 TRIP TO MOAB

Brett and Kaiyun invited me to join them in mid October for a road trip to Moab, with a stop on the way in Flagstaff and on the return, in Sedona.  I've wanted to return to the Southwest since the bus trip I took with Pam Proctor in 1999, so accepted without hesitation.

Brett hasn't hiked in several months because of painful knee issues.  However, biking doesn't cause a problem, so he gets his exercise pedaling rather than walking. He wanted to go to Moab to bike The Whole Enchilada, a 26.5-mile ride, with 7,000 vertical feet of down hill challenge.  


Our route would pass Monument Valley on the way to Moab, so we detoured for a short visit.  In the background are the Three Sisters.

Taken at Monument Valley's Welcome Center, behind Brett and me are the Left and Right Mittens.  


Friday morning, with Brett off to ride The Whole Enchilada, Kaiyun and I began our hike to some of the Arches National Park sites, this one the North and South Arches.


Visible from the North and South Arches is Turret Arch

Me, under the South Arch


An example of rock formations in Arches National Park




I intended to hike to Delicate Arch with Kaiyun, but realized that the last quarter mile or so was more difficult in ascent than I anticipated.  I sent her on to finish what we had started and sat on a rock to wait for her return.

Cyclists are told to expect the ride of The Whole Enchilada to take 6 to 8 hours.  Brett had finished in under 5.  We met him as he finished that last few yards.  

Once back in the motel room, he showed us the bruise he'd gotten when he took a tumble over his handlebars.
On Saturday, we picked up doughnuts and coffee and headed to the Canyonlands to sit on rocks while "picnicing."  Then we were on to see some of the vistas Brett had seen on his trip in April 2017.
Upheaval Dome

Brett and Kaiyun on one of their Utah bike rides

Hot air balloons awaiting sunrise
Monday sunrise in Sedona


The three of us "chilling" while waiting for sunrise in Sedona
We were back in Tustin Monday evening where I continued my visit before returning to Ohio on Saturday.  It was a memorable trip, made so by both the places visited and the great people I traveled with!  

Saturday, August 31, 2019

THE CHRONICALS OF GRAYSON

On July 22, a friend of Sophia's called her.  The friend had rescued a kitten that had been staying outside the apartment where she lives.  She had asked neighbors if the kitten belonged to them, and each said no.  During a heavy rain, she brought the bedraggled kitten in, and knowing that the lease did not permit pets, called Sophia to ask her to find it a home.

Sophia picked up the kitten and called me.  She planned to take it to the Humane Society.  I told her animals cannot be dropped off without paying a fee, money Sophia didn't have.  Although I could have (should have) given her the money, I didn't.  It was obvious that he (named "Grayson" by Sophia) had a respiratory infection and needed treatment.  No one was going to adopt a sick kitten.  Instead of paying the fee to leave the cat at the Humane Society, I made an appointment with our vet to see him the next day.  

After spending $250 for the vet's services -- treatment for ear mites, fleas, and worms, as well as a shot for his respiratory infection and testing for feline leukemia, and the first of routine shots administered to cats, Grayson began his stay with me while we searched for a home for him.


Within a few days Dawn said she had told a customer about Grayson, and the woman said she wanted a male gray and white cat to keep her cat company.  And that quickly Grayson had a mom.  The only problem was that the woman was in the process of remodeling a condo before moving in, and she couldn't take him for at least two weeks, maybe longer.  I agreed to keep him provided she would pay for his follow-up vet visit for his second shots.  She agreed.


Rather than set up the wire kennel for him, I gave him deluxe accommodations -- the guest bathroom.  A bed, litter box, and water (in a small dish, set in a larger pan to catch splashes, placed on top of a cloth to absorb what escaped the pan).  Kibble at night for the munchies.

On meds, his stuffy nose cleared up within a few days.  His appetite has always been exceptional.  And thus the chronicles began.

I had read that kittens sleep 16 to 20 hours a day.  Obviously Grayson isn't a typical cat.  He is in constant motion, much of it spent trying to befriend Simon and Lilli.  Neither of them has been receptive to being near him, let alone in the same room; therefore, when he is up, they have learned to get to my bedroom where I shut them in (and him out).  I learned that the only way to get some down time was to put Grayson in his "bedroom" for naps -- *10:00 until about noon, 3:00 until dinner (between 5:00 and 6:00), and down for the night at 9:00.  He is awake at 6:30 AM when the neighbors stir, their bathroom being next to Grayson's, so we have breakfast at 7:00.  Repeat daily from *.

Grayson's entertainment items are varied: the blue circle with the ball inside,  a couple fluffy balls that he carries around in his mouth, a plastic shoe string, and a lavender piece of knitted yarn that he hugs like a it's his best friend but also bites and claws like it's his worst enemy.






Since he doesn't sit still for very long, I was surprised that, while "Serengeti" was playing on television, he was captivated by the big cats and baboons and watched attentively as they ran across the screen.  I recorded him sitting and watching the activity for nearly a minute, and he continued to sit for another minute.

He has been a curious explorer and is afraid of nothing, not even the vacuum cleaner.  Fast on his feet, I learned to hold him when opening a door to the outdoors; otherwise, he would zip out to investigate.  When he's particularly rambunctious, I open the door into the garage (with the exterior door down) and he will explore for several minutes, or he will zip back and forth between the garage and the condo's interior, expending some of the abundant kitten energy.









This morning I heard noise from the pie pan that Grayson's water dish sits in and assumed that he'd run into the bathroom and stumbled into his water.  When I went to look, I saw him standing outside the bathroom with the cloth from under the dishes lying beside him.  The pie tin was now in the middle of the bathroom floor, the water dish sitting in it nearly empty, and a trail of water marked the route from start to finish -- 3 feet for the dish, 7 feet for the cloth. 

I sent daily photos to his adoptive mother.  At the end of his third week here, she came to meet him but said she didn't want to take him until the floor coverings in her remodel project were done.  Would I please keep him another two weeks?  I agreed.  His pick up date was August 31.  That's today.  This past Thursday she called to say she needs an extension and asked if I'd keep him until mid-September.  I replied that I had agreed to take care of him, but that he needed to be in his home, not mine.  I said that if he is still here in mid-September, she may have him, but in the meantime I will endeavor to find him another family.  Someone is going to realize this is the cat of all cats.

GRAYSON WAS ADOPTED LAST NIGHT, September 5, 2019.  A co-worker of Bob's stepped forward.  Their family cat had escaped the confines of their home and been mauled to death by two dogs.  Their 7 year old was told the cat had run away; the older girl, perhaps 12, saw what happened.  The girls were told they would get another cat. 

When the girls and their mother arrived, she left the girls in the car.  She wanted to surprise them.  I gathered up papers from his vet visit, the kitten kibble, and the lavender fluff of yarn to send home with him.  While Mom carried Grayson, I took the other items.  As she approached the car, the older girl, slouched in the front seat with her bare feet on the dashboard, sprung to a sitting position and opened the door as we approached, eyes wide open and mouth agape. She asked, "Is he ours?!" The younger girl, strapped in her carseat seemed puzzled but was eager to take him home.  Bob texted last night to say, "Mike said his daughters are in love with him already."

Although I was aggravated at the length of time Grayson was here, seeing that he's with people who wanted him made the extended stay worthwhile.  I know he'll be treated well.  He's already loved!


Moments at Play

Atop my desk


Climbing the lamp

Peekaboo from behind the keyboard shelf

Simon, curious but not ready to play

Grayson, trying again
Thankfully, a nap

Saturday, November 10, 2018

2018 IN REVIEW



The highlights of 2018 were few in number but all are worth noting.

The year began with a remodel at 5770 Courtland. The walls between the kitchen and living and dining rooms were removed, creating an open concept.  Thankfully the contractor, a one-man operation, was focused and accomplished his tasks quickly and without errors, although he found surprises behind the materials he removed.  Once the kitchen remodel was done, carpeting in the common areas was replaced with bamboo flooring.

BEFORE







 AFTER



 
Sophia went to the prom wearing a dress that fit like it was made just for her.  Her date assumed they were now a couple, an opinion she disagreed with, and that was the end of their short-lived relationship! 





















In his senior year of high school, Brandon took college courses at Kent State-Stark which allowed him to complete his high school requirements for graduation as well as earn college credit.  He received his diploma with his classmates on May 29.




Brandon chose to delay college for a year.  He said he wanted to experience what being a responsible adult entailed, and he plans to return to school in the fall of 2019. This year he and two buddies, Cayden and Ben, share an apartment and are working to pay rent and their living expenses. 

Dawn had a graduation party for Brandon a few days after June surgery to repair his shoulder.  Coming with him to the event were his pain meds and the ice machine that pumped cold water through the pad that covered his shoulder.




 


with Cayden ...

...and Ben

Sid and Pat Albert, Mimi and Jeff Currey, Grandma and Bob


MOVING DAY

The day was hot, the air conditioning was not functioning, and the apartment is on the third floor, accessible by stairs only.  Brandon was not allowed to use his left arm, so all the heavy work was done by Matt and Cayden.




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Sophia obtained her “temps” in early May, and she spent the next six months driving as often as she could.  In August, Sophia went with me to Indiana where I had lunch with women who were high school classmates.  She drove all the way there and half way back the next day.  While we were there, I showed her the house where I spent my childhood and we also drove by the house in Mishawaka where my mother grew up.  Sophia took her final driving test on November 6 and is now licensed. Grandma's chauffeuring days are done!


Brett surprised us all

November 3 was Dawn’s 50th birthday and November 4 was Sophia’s 16th birthday – big events for both of them.  Sophia asked me in August if she could invite Inga, Dawn’s childhood friend, to come from North Carolina to surprise Dawn.  I agreed and Inga was on board with the plan.  Sophia and I were in the kitchen making Dawn’s special Keto birthday cake on Thursday afternoon when Brett, who had flown in from California, came up the stairs.  A special and unexpected gift for us all!


I picked Inga up late Friday and she spent the night with me.  On Saturday morning, Inga, Brett, and I went to Dawn’s where Inga surprised her.  The two then went for prearranged massages and facials and then met Brett for lunch.  That evening after dinner, the birthday girls opened their gifts.  



Inga and Dawn with their special Pandora charms
 selected by Sophia

Sophia holding the vehicle emergency kit for her car
that Dawn put together for her

Sunday morning breakfast

Carlos and Sophia