Saturday, August 31, 2019

THE CHRONICALS OF GRAYSON

On July 22, a friend of Sophia's called her.  The friend had rescued a kitten that had been staying outside the apartment where she lives.  She had asked neighbors if the kitten belonged to them, and each said no.  During a heavy rain, she brought the bedraggled kitten in, and knowing that the lease did not permit pets, called Sophia to ask her to find it a home.

Sophia picked up the kitten and called me.  She planned to take it to the Humane Society.  I told her animals cannot be dropped off without paying a fee, money Sophia didn't have.  Although I could have (should have) given her the money, I didn't.  It was obvious that he (named "Grayson" by Sophia) had a respiratory infection and needed treatment.  No one was going to adopt a sick kitten.  Instead of paying the fee to leave the cat at the Humane Society, I made an appointment with our vet to see him the next day.  

After spending $250 for the vet's services -- treatment for ear mites, fleas, and worms, as well as a shot for his respiratory infection and testing for feline leukemia, and the first of routine shots administered to cats, Grayson began his stay with me while we searched for a home for him.


Within a few days Dawn said she had told a customer about Grayson, and the woman said she wanted a male gray and white cat to keep her cat company.  And that quickly Grayson had a mom.  The only problem was that the woman was in the process of remodeling a condo before moving in, and she couldn't take him for at least two weeks, maybe longer.  I agreed to keep him provided she would pay for his follow-up vet visit for his second shots.  She agreed.


Rather than set up the wire kennel for him, I gave him deluxe accommodations -- the guest bathroom.  A bed, litter box, and water (in a small dish, set in a larger pan to catch splashes, placed on top of a cloth to absorb what escaped the pan).  Kibble at night for the munchies.

On meds, his stuffy nose cleared up within a few days.  His appetite has always been exceptional.  And thus the chronicles began.

I had read that kittens sleep 16 to 20 hours a day.  Obviously Grayson isn't a typical cat.  He is in constant motion, much of it spent trying to befriend Simon and Lilli.  Neither of them has been receptive to being near him, let alone in the same room; therefore, when he is up, they have learned to get to my bedroom where I shut them in (and him out).  I learned that the only way to get some down time was to put Grayson in his "bedroom" for naps -- *10:00 until about noon, 3:00 until dinner (between 5:00 and 6:00), and down for the night at 9:00.  He is awake at 6:30 AM when the neighbors stir, their bathroom being next to Grayson's, so we have breakfast at 7:00.  Repeat daily from *.

Grayson's entertainment items are varied: the blue circle with the ball inside,  a couple fluffy balls that he carries around in his mouth, a plastic shoe string, and a lavender piece of knitted yarn that he hugs like a it's his best friend but also bites and claws like it's his worst enemy.






Since he doesn't sit still for very long, I was surprised that, while "Serengeti" was playing on television, he was captivated by the big cats and baboons and watched attentively as they ran across the screen.  I recorded him sitting and watching the activity for nearly a minute, and he continued to sit for another minute.

He has been a curious explorer and is afraid of nothing, not even the vacuum cleaner.  Fast on his feet, I learned to hold him when opening a door to the outdoors; otherwise, he would zip out to investigate.  When he's particularly rambunctious, I open the door into the garage (with the exterior door down) and he will explore for several minutes, or he will zip back and forth between the garage and the condo's interior, expending some of the abundant kitten energy.









This morning I heard noise from the pie pan that Grayson's water dish sits in and assumed that he'd run into the bathroom and stumbled into his water.  When I went to look, I saw him standing outside the bathroom with the cloth from under the dishes lying beside him.  The pie tin was now in the middle of the bathroom floor, the water dish sitting in it nearly empty, and a trail of water marked the route from start to finish -- 3 feet for the dish, 7 feet for the cloth. 

I sent daily photos to his adoptive mother.  At the end of his third week here, she came to meet him but said she didn't want to take him until the floor coverings in her remodel project were done.  Would I please keep him another two weeks?  I agreed.  His pick up date was August 31.  That's today.  This past Thursday she called to say she needs an extension and asked if I'd keep him until mid-September.  I replied that I had agreed to take care of him, but that he needed to be in his home, not mine.  I said that if he is still here in mid-September, she may have him, but in the meantime I will endeavor to find him another family.  Someone is going to realize this is the cat of all cats.

GRAYSON WAS ADOPTED LAST NIGHT, September 5, 2019.  A co-worker of Bob's stepped forward.  Their family cat had escaped the confines of their home and been mauled to death by two dogs.  Their 7 year old was told the cat had run away; the older girl, perhaps 12, saw what happened.  The girls were told they would get another cat. 

When the girls and their mother arrived, she left the girls in the car.  She wanted to surprise them.  I gathered up papers from his vet visit, the kitten kibble, and the lavender fluff of yarn to send home with him.  While Mom carried Grayson, I took the other items.  As she approached the car, the older girl, slouched in the front seat with her bare feet on the dashboard, sprung to a sitting position and opened the door as we approached, eyes wide open and mouth agape. She asked, "Is he ours?!" The younger girl, strapped in her carseat seemed puzzled but was eager to take him home.  Bob texted last night to say, "Mike said his daughters are in love with him already."

Although I was aggravated at the length of time Grayson was here, seeing that he's with people who wanted him made the extended stay worthwhile.  I know he'll be treated well.  He's already loved!


Moments at Play

Atop my desk


Climbing the lamp

Peekaboo from behind the keyboard shelf

Simon, curious but not ready to play

Grayson, trying again
Thankfully, a nap

Saturday, November 10, 2018

2018 IN REVIEW



The highlights of 2018 were few in number but all are worth noting.

The year began with a remodel at 5770 Courtland. The walls between the kitchen and living and dining rooms were removed, creating an open concept.  Thankfully the contractor, a one-man operation, was focused and accomplished his tasks quickly and without errors, although he found surprises behind the materials he removed.  Once the kitchen remodel was done, carpeting in the common areas was replaced with bamboo flooring.

BEFORE







 AFTER



 
Sophia went to the prom wearing a dress that fit like it was made just for her.  Her date assumed they were now a couple, an opinion she disagreed with, and that was the end of their short-lived relationship! 





















In his senior year of high school, Brandon took college courses at Kent State-Stark which allowed him to complete his high school requirements for graduation as well as earn college credit.  He received his diploma with his classmates on May 29.




Brandon chose to delay college for a year.  He said he wanted to experience what being a responsible adult entailed, and he plans to return to school in the fall of 2019. This year he and two buddies, Cayden and Ben, share an apartment and are working to pay rent and their living expenses. 

Dawn had a graduation party for Brandon a few days after June surgery to repair his shoulder.  Coming with him to the event were his pain meds and the ice machine that pumped cold water through the pad that covered his shoulder.




 


with Cayden ...

...and Ben

Sid and Pat Albert, Mimi and Jeff Currey, Grandma and Bob


MOVING DAY

The day was hot, the air conditioning was not functioning, and the apartment is on the third floor, accessible by stairs only.  Brandon was not allowed to use his left arm, so all the heavy work was done by Matt and Cayden.




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Sophia obtained her “temps” in early May, and she spent the next six months driving as often as she could.  In August, Sophia went with me to Indiana where I had lunch with women who were high school classmates.  She drove all the way there and half way back the next day.  While we were there, I showed her the house where I spent my childhood and we also drove by the house in Mishawaka where my mother grew up.  Sophia took her final driving test on November 6 and is now licensed. Grandma's chauffeuring days are done!


Brett surprised us all

November 3 was Dawn’s 50th birthday and November 4 was Sophia’s 16th birthday – big events for both of them.  Sophia asked me in August if she could invite Inga, Dawn’s childhood friend, to come from North Carolina to surprise Dawn.  I agreed and Inga was on board with the plan.  Sophia and I were in the kitchen making Dawn’s special Keto birthday cake on Thursday afternoon when Brett, who had flown in from California, came up the stairs.  A special and unexpected gift for us all!


I picked Inga up late Friday and she spent the night with me.  On Saturday morning, Inga, Brett, and I went to Dawn’s where Inga surprised her.  The two then went for prearranged massages and facials and then met Brett for lunch.  That evening after dinner, the birthday girls opened their gifts.  



Inga and Dawn with their special Pandora charms
 selected by Sophia

Sophia holding the vehicle emergency kit for her car
that Dawn put together for her

Sunday morning breakfast

Carlos and Sophia





Saturday, June 24, 2017

LAKE CUMBERLAND - JUNE 2017

This year's vacation may be the last that will include Brandon since he will graduate from high school in a year and be independent (no longer required to participate in family activities).  Bob wanted to do something that Brandon and Sophia would especially enjoy.  Since they have been eager to go on weekend visits to local lakes to have Bob pull them on the tubes and swim in the lake, Bob and Dawn decided to rent a houseboat at Lake Cumberland in Kentucky for a few days.  On the drive home we would stop at Mammoth Cave, northwest of the lake, to take a short tour.



Lake Cumberland is a reservoir constructed by the Army Corps of Engineers in the early 1950's to prevent flood damage. The lake is 100 miles long and has 1250 miles of shoreline.

The Jamestown Marina does not provide boats with anchors, so they must be tied up along the shore at night.

Dawn's finger points at the X which marks the spot where we eventually tied up the boat.

Our first try at tying up failed because we were unable to get close enough to the shore where there was vegetation to tie up to.  Eventually we found the ideal spot, but tying up required using Bob's boat to get to the shore with a rope.  Rather than have to repeat the process, we decided to leave the houseboat tied up and tour the lake in Bob's boat.

The houseboat could accommodate twelve people.  It had 5 cabins, each equipped with a double bed, and a sofa in the lounge that opened up to sleep two. There were two bathrooms, each with a toilet, sink and shower. The kitchen was fully equipped to serve twelve and had seating for four at the bar and a booth for about six. A generator ran 24/7 to provide electricity and to power the air conditioning.






Bob spent hours fishing, but all he caught was the
attention of turtles!
Looking for a bird we could hear but not see

The view through the kitchen window
Most of our time on the boat was spent relaxing on the deck

There is also an upper deck. Located here is a second wheel under a canopied shaded area, a hot tub and lounges for eight.  Also available is a slide from the upper deck into the water.







From the houseboat, the view north, across the arm

Sunset, looking west
Each day we went out in Bob's boat, once to visit the Marina and other times to just enjoy being on the water. 
Sophia, hoping for a signal in open water

Just chillin' and hoping to get a tan

Dawn, sunbathing on the tube

Wolf Creek Dam, on the far left, is a quarter-mile wide.  The retaining wall, the long 
cement strip, is over a half-mile wide
Google Map of Wolf Creek Dam

Seventy-Six Falls
Seventy-Six Falls was more like a spillway and was named for the station number in the original survey.  http://kykinfolk.com/clinton/seventysix.html

Although we weren't to return the houseboat until Thursday morning at 10:00, the weather forecast was for rain to begin at 8:00.  To eliminate the need to rush, complicated by doing it in the rain, we requested and were given permission to bring the boat in Wednesday evening and spend the night docked.  Such a wise decision!

Having packed Wednesday evening, we were up before 7:00 Thursday and reversed the order followed in moving gear onto the boat a few days earlier.  Following checkout, some gear was loaded into Bob's boat, and bags with our clothing were put in trolleys. Bob and I took the Marina's shuttle to the off-site parking area to get the Jeep. Back at the marina in the loading zone, we brought the tolleys with our bags from the houseboat and stowed them. 

Then it was back to the houseboat so that Bob could move his boat to the launch area, about a mile from the Marina. Brandon, Dawn, Sophia and I went in the Jeep to get the boat trailer from yet another parking area, and from there drove to the launch to get Bob and his boat.  Boat out of the water and on the trailer, drops of rain began falling as the tarp was being snapped onto it.  Rain began in earnest as we drove away from the lake.

It was about a three-hour drive to Mammoth Cave and no joy for Bob to drive to in pouring rain and heavy traffic. After arriving, we chose to do a self-guided tour. The entrance was several yards from the visitor center and we were all wet before we reached the passageway. The walk in this section of the cave was a short one which left us contemplating a return to see more. Our short tour completed, we returned to the Jeep for the 7-hour drive home.

Below-ground cave entrance
Paved path in the cave